When I am faced with a decision, do I really know what is best for everyone involved?
Whether big or small decisions, I usually (still learning) turn within to Holy Spirit and ask for direction and guidance.
I learn from A Course in Miracles that:
"In everything be led by Him, and do not reconsider. Trust Him to answer quickly, surely, and with love for everyone who will be touched in any way by the decision. And everyone will be."
There is such wisdom here. My decisions affect others and I wouldn't want to harm anyone out of ignorance. I am learning to ask, to go within, to be still and listen for guidance. And Spirit will answer quickly and surely with love, considering everyone affected.
Why trust my limited understanding when I have God's Guidance available always?